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Over Them

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This isn't another motivational-quotes app—it's a toolkit for actually moving on

By 志 高 · Utilities
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Why we expect it: Its clear focus on breakup recovery and privacy makes the value easy to grasp.

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In short

Over Them is a utilities app for people recovering from a breakup. It offers tools to lock away photos and chats, ride out urges to text an ex, sort keepsakes, log daily mood, and write an unsent letter. Everything stays on the device, with no internet required, no uploads, no ads,

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This isn't another motivational-quotes app—it's a toolkit for actually moving on.

After a breakup, the hardest part isn't the loss itself. It's the urge to text them, re-reading photos and messages on repeat, and the endless spiral of overthinking. Let It Go presses down those impulses one by one and gets you through the hardest withdrawal days.

■ Frozen Album Seal away their photos and chat screenshots, then set a lock period. Feeling the urge to peek early? Write a 50-character reflection and sit through a 3-minute cool-down first—by then, the impulse has usually faded on its own. Nothing unlocks until the period ends, until you truly learn: it's not that you can't look back—it's that you no longer need to.

■ Want to Contact Them A sudden urge to text them? Tap it the moment the thought hits. A 3-minute ring countdown, three clear-headed reality checks, and guided mindfulness breathing carry you through the worst few minutes. Every time you make it through, you beat yourself one more time.

■ Farewell to Belongings Photograph the keepsakes you've been holding onto, and record the process of sorting, letting go, or boxing them up. There's no rush to throw anything away—say a proper goodbye through the lens, release what these objects carry, and complete a ritual that's truly yours. Photos stay on your device and never leave it.

■ Mood Barometer Log your mood once a day and your personal emotional curve takes shape automatically. Watching that line slowly climb is living proof that you're getting better.

■ Unsent Letter Write to the past—and to yourself. Type it out or write it by hand. When you're done, choose "Keep as a Keepsake" or "Turn to Ashes," and give this relationship a dignified ending.

■ Let-Go Check-in "Didn't reach out. Didn't look back. Stopped the spiral."—turned into small, checkable tasks with progress you can actually see, walking forward with you one day at a time.

■ Privacy is our most important promise Everything stays on your device. No internet required, zero uploads, no ads, no third-party analytics. Your photos, your thoughts, and your vulnerable moments are yours alone.

■ Pay once. No games. One purchase unlocks everything, forever. No subscriptions, no extra in-app purchase pop-ups, and no "pay to keep healing" walls.

If you're stuck in a love you can't put down, may Let It Go be the outlet you need on the hardest nights. Take it slow. You're going to be okay.

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