Attune: Couples Communication

Attune is a shared space for the two of you — built for the everyday moments that make or break closeness.

PAUSE BEFORE IT ESCALATES When a conversation starts to heat up, tap "Need a moment?" for a guided breathing pause, a private moment to name what you actually need, and a time to come back. Your partner can see that you've paused — and when you'll return — without seeing anything you wrote.

DAILY CHECK-INS Log your mood and how connected you feel in about 30 seconds. Share it with your partner or keep it private — your choice, every time.

GOALS YOU BOTH AGREE TO Small, specific goals, suggested from what you've shared or written by either of you. Nothing goes active until you've both said yes. Missing a day never resets anything.

A WEEKLY PULSE Nine quick questions about connection, communication, repair, and appreciation. See each other's answers side by side — only once you've both finished.

A PRIVATE JOURNAL Write down what happened, what you felt, and what you needed. It never leaves your phone, and gentle patterns surface over time.

A REFRAME COACH Turn "you always…" into something your partner can actually hear. On iPhones with Apple Intelligence, it runs entirely on your device.

SHARED SIGNALS & REPAIR PROMPTS Agree on words only the two of you understand, and get small, specific ways back after a hard moment.

PRIVATE BY DESIGN No ads, no tracking, no accounts. Your shared space lives in your own iCloud, and your journal stays on your phone.

Attune works on its own too — invite your partner whenever you're ready.

Attune is not therapy or crisis support. If you ever feel unsafe, the app points you to people who can help.

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